Retreats

Discover a Deeper Way of Living Vallecitos Mountain Retreat Center offers a retreat for almost everyone. Our schedule carries a...
  • Casita Benefactor Rate (I am resourced and can help another) – $1,500.00
  • Casita Actual Rate (I can cover myself) – $1,260.00
  • Casita Scholarship Rate (A lower rate would help me attend) – $840.00
  • Yurt Benefactor Rate (I am resourced and can help another) – $1,500.00
  • Yurt Actual Rate (I can cover myself) – $1,260.00
  • Yurt Scholarship Rate (A lower rate would help me attend) – $840.00
  • Tent Cabin Benefactor Rate (I am resourced and can help another) – $1,230.00
  • Tent Cabin Actual Rate (I can cover myself) – $1,020.00
  • Tent Cabin Scholarship Rate (A lower rate would help me attend) – $660.00
  • Hermitage - Supporting scholarships and land stewardship – $2,250.00
  • Hermitage - Supporting scholarships – $1,950.00
  • Hermitage - A secluded cabin – $1,770.00
  • Tent Camping – $570.00

Date & Time Details: Check-in is from 3:00-5:00 on the first day of the retreat. The retreat will close mid-morning on the last day of the retreat. (Learn more)

PRICE: We offer a sliding-scale pricing structure, ranging from $2,250 - $570. These prices do not include add-on items. (Learn more)

DANA: This is a dana-based retreat. (Learn more)

SHUTTLE SERVICE: Shuttle Service is available for this retreat. (Learn more)

NOBLE SILENCE: This retreat will be held in noble silence. (Learn more)

SCHOLARSHIP: If you require additional scholarship assistance beyond the published scholarship rate (35%), you can apply. These additional scholarships are available on a limited basis. (Learn more)

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Registration opens: Feb 3, 2026

Deep Refuge: A LGBTQIA+ Community Retreat in Nature

With Victoria Cary and René Rivera

July 19 - 25, 2026

Registration opens: Feb 3, 2026

Join us for a six-night silent retreat in beloved community on the beautiful land of Vallecitos. For this 5th annual LGBTQIA+ Community retreat you are invited into deep refuge in relationship to the land, dhamma, community, and our capacity to awaken together. Guided by the wisdom of the land, we will cultivate our capacity to meet the conditions of this life by exploring some of the essential truths of existence the Buddha illuminated: the underlying unsatisfactoriness of life, things being in constant flux, and the illusion of a permanent fixed self. We will explore these characteristics of our experience through a queer lens, and held in the bountiful care and compassion of the land.

We will offer Dhamma talks, still and walking meditation, guided exploration on the land, individual and small group discussion, and chanting. These practices will be offered mostly outdoors, in a container of silence and nurturing spaciousness, making the way for us to connect with ourselves, wild nature, and deepen our connection to community.

This retreat is appropriate to all practitioners new and experienced. We encourage BIPOC, Trans, Non-binary, and Gender Non-conforming participants.

This is a retreat for the LGBTQIA+ community.  If you do not identify as such, we are happy to help you find another Vallecitos retreat.

 

 


Cancellation Policy:

  • 45 days prior to retreat: Full refund, minus a $150 nonrefundable fee
  • 44-22 days prior to retreat: 50% refund
  • 0-21 days prior to retreat: No refund

Teachers

Victoria Cary
Victoria Cary has been practicing Insight Meditation and studying the Dharma since 2006. In 2017 she completed Spirit Rock’s Community Dharma Leader program and went on to become a fully empowered Dharma Teacher. In 2016 she co-founded the San Francisco People of Color Insight Sangha and continues as one of the core teachers. She is a San Francisco Bay Area Native. She left her workplace of 20 years in 2017 to deepen into the Dharma. Since then she has spent time in and out of intensive silent meditation practice, including a 3-month retreat at IMS, 6-week amd 3-month retreats at…
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René Rivera
René Rivera is a meditation teacher, restorative justice facilitator, and leader, working and learning in all the spaces in-between race, gender, and other perceived binaries, as a queer, latinx, trans man. René teaches heart-centered, trauma-informed meditation, at the East Bay Meditation Center and other meditation centers. He has co-led the first residential meditation retreats for transgender, nonbinary and gender expansive people. René is a restorative justice facilitator for the Ahimsa Collective, working to heal sexual and gender based violence.
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